HOW OUR LIVES CAN FULL OF PEACE

     Life .......... as an experience is too much amazingly confusing  experience .... cause some times it seems to be too beautiful, wonderful , spellbounding , fasinating experience and sometimes it  feels to be one of the most amazingly disgusting experience ...... DO you know why it happens....???? According my thoughts it only happens just because of two factors which seems to be not so big but they are the reasons ...one of them is aur expectations and second one is comparision . first i would like to discuss about the matter of comperision . Comperision in matters of this little life of earth is really a very harmful and worst things if you are comparing your life with the people who are higher in status as that of your because in this way you can never be happy because if u get to the status of that person who was higher than you at some time you will not get satisfy n you will not stop to compare with other and on that status u would be surely comparing yourself with the one who is higher than you ....but at the same time comparsion is a fruitful thing if u r comparing your self with some one according to deeds and qualification and there should be comparision as well as motivations to get higher in both of these things ..... because the thing which is harmful at some points is also the thing which is good at another point .... After that i would like to discuss second thing which is expectation . Expectation is so weird that it generates automatically in your mind and u started to expect from any one without telling him whether what you are expecting from him/her and when he/she does not act upon your expectation you start to get hurt and blaming him just because of your thoughts and thats not the good way because these expectations will never make u satisfy with your life , with your relations and even in any walk of life ... but , as i said in above lines that most of the negative things have some positive uses also such as expetation is also good if it is from ALLAH (S.W.T) ..because it increases your faith in him. so never expect from any one except Allah . . .